One of my friends has started walking on a path that might end up in harm & pain. I tried so many times to stop my friend. Every time my friend says okay will not do that but few weeks down the road my friend do the same. My friend starts walking on the same path again. So I have been thinking that what the value of my words is for my friend. I just can’t see my friend getting hurt & I know if my friend keep walking on that path, will get hurt sooner or later. Only problem is that I have no rights to make my friend stop & my friend has no trust in me so that’s why keeps walking on the road. I want to ask my friend a question. How many times I have said something & it did not happen? Well! I’m sure the answer would be never till now. So then why not trusting me on this part? Yes! I have no rights to tell anyone what to do & what not to & I cannot force anyone but then why am I here? Am I here just to act as a friend & do nothing? How many times any of your foes have stepped up to you & said you are walking on the wrong path? I’m sure never but when a friend do this, he is not considered as one.
It hurts when you see your friend walking a wrong path but it hurts even more when you are just standing there & can’t do a thing coz you have no rights to do anything. Now a question that I need to ask myself that why am I here as a friend? If I can’t even do anything to stop my friend then I don’t deserve to be a friend. So I think I should stop being a friend as my words have no value. I can only be an acquaintance. I think I should do that. So later I will not feel bad when my friend will get hurt. I can only hope that my friend stop walking that path before getting hurt coz once hurt, then there is no way to go back.
The world out there is full of selfish people. You cannot trust every person you meet. You cannot believe that every other person will be thinking the same way you do. I have seen strange events in my life. I have seen people changing in minutes & yes I have seen myself changing as well. If a person begs u to be his/her friend, I would defiantly ask one question from myself that why is he/she begging? What do I have that this person wants? There must be a reason for it but I have seen people just having pity on them & letting them being their friends but never thinking for once that what is his/her intension behind this. Why would anyone beg & request you to be a friend? There are millions of people out there better than you then why begging you? So there is something wrong defiantly. People just ignore these small things & later they are shocked to see the real part of those beggars but then it’s late. Then you can only cry & curse yourself for making them your friend.
Yes! I know you all can hate me for saying all this but if I’m wrong then you have all the rights to prove me wrong & I’m ready for it…
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